Some of the big love questions « Thread Started on Jun 19, 2005, 11:22am »
well i think there are a few magor questions that people have asked me and i have asked people.
- in the oposite sex what do you go for? good looks? or do u take time to get to know the person, no matter what they look like then u make ur decision if u like them or not.
-when do u think is a good age to start having sex?
-do you think it is possible to be in love at your age? (giv your age if u answer)
-if you were ever in love, how did you know? how did it feel?
Joined: Jun 2005 Gender: Female Posts: 18 Location: California
Re: Some of the big love questions « Reply #1 on Jun 19, 2005, 12:02pm »
- in the oposite sex what do you go for? good looks? or do u take time to get to know the person, no matter what they look like then u make ur decision if u like them or not: Definately sense of humour- I don't give a d**n about looks as long as the guy can make me laugh- if he's all serious and un-funny then it's over before it's even began. Relationships are supposed to be about having fun- I don't like it when the guy gets all hot and heavy too soon either- I like a guy I can relate to and relax around.
-when do u think is a good age to start having sex? I honestly think you shouldn't have sex before you're ready and I don't think anyone under the age of 16 is truly ready for that kind of relationship (and if they say they are then they're just kidding themselves) saying that though- when I turned sixteen I didn't magically feel ready for sex. I think it's a shame when people give away their virginity before they're ready; it's something to be treasured not thrown away like a pile of rubbish.
-do you think it is possible to be in love at your age? (giv your age if u answer) Well I think it's possible to believe that you're in love- I've been there myself- but after I was out of the relationship I realised I was just infactuated (very very) but I don't think you can love- or at least love the one person you know you will love for the whole of the rest of your life- again- being a teenager is about having fun; laughing and having a good time. I think the chances of finding your life partner when you're a kid are very slim. I'm sixteen.
-if you were ever in love, how did you know? how did it feel? Thought I was in love for a very long time; the guy had it all. He was gorgeous and hillarious and he treated me so well; I was fifteen years old and already getting to the point of imaging my life with him. It hurt a lot when we split because I really wasn't expecting us; everyone always said we were so right for each other and I was pretty broken (I stayed loyal to him a long time after he started seeing another girl) In the end we got back together but I realised the spark was gone- when you've been building someone up in your kind for so long, when you finally get them they never seem as shiney- know what I mean? I do still love him when I think about him though- but I think I'm more in love with the memories than I am with him.
Re: Some of the big love questions « Reply #2 on Jun 19, 2005, 12:59pm »
- i dont go for looks, like you i like funny girls, girls that can understand me, and girls that i can jsut relax with for houers talking about some random topic. i dont really like people that go for looks alone, because they could have the hottest guy in the world but they could be completly unhappy with them. (not saying that a good looking guy cant be nice or right for som1)
- i think the exact same thing as you [yellow][brick][roader] people may think they are ready but they actuly arnt, at prity much any age under 16 girls and boys only want sex because they think ittle make them cool or maby there just pigs looking for sex (refuring mostly to the guys)
- (14) yeah i think it is possible to be in love at my age, it all depends on who it is tho, i have a friend who i have everything in common with, we went out for a while then she dumped me. i was completly crushed but were still really good friends and im still crazy about her but idk if she is about me any more.
- well lest see, when ever i got nere her i was reallly happy and uumm lol idk i just knew i gess haha
to [yellow][brick][roader], wow thank you so much, your answers realy made me think about my love life. you have a great insite on life *claps*
Joined: Jun 2005 Gender: Female Posts: 18 Location: California
Re: Some of the big love questions « Reply #3 on Jun 19, 2005, 1:50pm »
At least we agree on most things- wow I made someone think! *proud!*
I think you're right about people wanting to loose their virginity just to boost their status though. I know someone who got drunk at a party and slept with a guy she never met before- and hasn't ever seen since- but rather than be embaressed about her immature behaviour; she told me straight away and boasts about it all the time. Pft- *not impressed*